Divorce Update

Wow - I have been spectacularly shite at keeping up with my blog lately!

A lot of stuff going on this month too. Won't bore you all with the nitty gritty but the divorce is ploughing ahead more slowly than a slow thing! Got the financial stuff finished - just need to get it exchanged and apply for decree absolute.

Nick's mood swings are becoming increasingly extreme. He has gone from wanting to talk and co-operate to cancelling all the direct debits on the joint account without telling me. I had to pay the mortgage and then shift the mortgage payment date til after my new payday.

Then after all that his solicitor wrote to advise that as I have "refused" to pay into the joint account for 2 months he is going to issuue an application for ancillary relief which will include an application for maintenance!

This from the fucker who has left me to pay for ALL the childcare needs and food since OCTOBER 2007! Not to mention that I paid the last mortgage installment! It was only one month I missed and that was because I changed jobs and got paid about £900 less than I expected to be paid! BUT I CALLED THE BANK TO ADVISE THEM AND REARRANGE STUFF!

And there is a big difference between refusing to pay and being unable to pay!

Grrrrrrrr! Bastard!

Suffice it to say I am not taking that crap from him or his solicitor! When I have finished procrastinating on this blog I am going to write a response which my solicitor can pass on to his solicitor!

Anyhow - enough about that arsehole!

Hopefully he will be gone soon!