Everyone is on edge. Nick is taking offence at the tiniest little things and doing nothing but moaning about it.
For example - Jade phoned me this evening about taking Gemima to Brownies tonight. Now bear in mind that I ALWAYS take her to brownies - in the whole time she has been doing the Rainbows/Brownies thing it has been me with the exception of one occasion when I couldn't. Jade committed the cardinal sin of assuming that, as usual, it would be me taking Gemima - and she made this assumption without consulting Nick first to see if he was taking Gemima.
Oh dear God - what a palava. You'd think there was some big conspiracy to exclude him from the thrilling task of driving up the sodding road to Brownies with a 7-year-old in tow.
The first thing he said to me when I walked through the front door after work....
"I'M taking Gemima to Brownies OK. Jade just assumes things and leaves me out and no-one consults me on anything. I'D already arranged to take her so I'M doing it"Fucking childish twat!!
On a more positive note, I saw my solicitor today. Gave him the money for the court fees so the petition will be filed in the morning. Also gave him a copy of the transcript of mine and Nick's MSN conversation in which he asked if he could "have a shag when I'm gagging for it" and when I objected, informed me that "any hole will do". That went down a storm, I can tell you!!
Also spoke to my solicitor about my friendship with Keith (who I have known since I was about 15) and Nick's accusations that I have been having an affair with Keith since probably about August... along with the fact that in the past Nick has accused me of having an affair with Ed, who I have known since I was 13 and who, at the time I was being accused, I hadn't seen for six months... and Nick's questioning of my 'relationship' with my friend Wendy!
For someone who said they didn't want a sexual relationship with me because I am physically unattractive, he sure is paranoid that I'm getting it somewhere!
Anyhow - I have been advised that if I don't want to stay in the house with him at the weekends, then there is no reason that I should have to - and that if I want to stay at Keith's then I can, because there is no reason I cannot continue to visit my friends just because I am getting divorced.
So Ner!!! A big two fingered salute and a raspberry to Nick The Prick (Thank you to my friend Karen for that fabulous moniker).
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